Abu’l-Darda (ra) once said to his wife:
“If you see me angry, calm me down and if I see you angry, I will calm you down, otherwise it will be too difficult to live together.”
A real story
A husband gave a cake to his wife after an argument! On the cake he wrote “May Allah give you Sabr to deal with me.”
Mashallah! What a thoughtful husband. May Allah reward them both. Ameen.